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[CT] Can an adult be sued for a parent’s unpaid assisted living bill without signing anything?

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Based on your situation, there are several legal arguments and considerations in Connecticut that could potentially support your case:

  1. Probate Court Proceedings: If the debt was forgiven during a probate court proceeding, this could be a significant factor. Probate court decisions are typically documented, and if the debt was officially forgiven, it should be reflected in the court records.
  2. Contractual Obligations: Since your husband did not sign any forms assuming financial responsibility for his mother's debt, he may not be contractually obligated to pay. Generally, a person cannot be held liable for a debt unless they have agreed to it in writing.(CT Gen Stat § 46b-215)
  3. Unethical Practices: The behavior of the assisted living facility, as described, might be considered unethical, especially if they previously acknowledged the debt was forgiven and are now pursuing it again.
  4. Witness Testimony: The presence of witnesses, like yourself and other family members, who can testify about what occurred during the probate court proceedings, could be valuable in supporting your husband's case.

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My husband is being sued for $250,000 for back rent owed to his mother's assisted living facility. He is not a co-signer.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

I understand how stressful it can be to deal with a lawsuit, especially involving family matters. Can you please tell me if your husband has received any official court documents regarding the lawsuit?

He has, but he can't find them. We called the court clerk on Friday and found out the answer date is April 14. He will be going to Waterbury Superior Court on Monday to file an answer. By the way, [business name redacted], who owns her assisted living facility, dragged her to Probate Court last year after having her sign a voluntary conservatorship, and when the judge asked her if she knew why she was there, she said no. The judge lost it on the two lawyers for [business name redacted] and told them they were acting in an unethical way, and said he could report them both to the CT Bar Association. On the record, they forgave the debt. Fast forward a year, and now they're coming after my husband. How can that be? I'm afraid I could lose my house!

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Has he had any prior communication with the assisted living facility about this debt?

Several times, until the manager screamed at him that if he doesn't get his mother out, he will dump her at our house. All communication stopped at that point. My husband never signed any forms assuming financial responsibility for his mother.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Is there anything else the lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured, they'll be able to help with your husband's lawsuit.

No.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Hey there! Welcome to AskaLawyer. I'm Andres Sanchez, an attorney with many years of experience. Just so you are aware, our service is a legal information-only site. No attorney-client relationship is formed from our conversation. I understand your husband is being sued for $250,000 for back rent from his mother's assisted living facility, and he is not the co-signer. Could you provide more details about any steps you've already taken or considered regarding this situation?

He will be filing an answer in Waterbury Superior Court on Monday, stating the debt was forgiven on the record in Waterbury Probate Court last year. How can they sue him when the debt was already dismissed? My husband never signed forms as a co-signer.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Has your husband received any written documentation or communication from the assisted living facility or their legal representatives regarding this lawsuit? This could include letters, emails, or any other form of communication.

No. He said something came from the court, and he can't find it. That's why we called the court clerk on Friday and got the details.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Got it, thanks for clarifying. It's good that you reached out to the court clerk to get the details. Do you know if your husband has any documentation or evidence from the probate court proceedings where the debt was supposedly forgiven? This could be important for his defense.

No, but he is planning to get the transcripts from the probate court on Monday.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

That sounds like a good plan. Having those transcripts could be very helpful. Is there any other evidence or witnesses that might support your husband's case, such as people who were present during the probate court proceedings?

Me, his uncle, and the uncle's wife.

We all attended the hearing.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Based on your situation, there are several legal arguments and considerations in Connecticut that could potentially support your case:

  1. Probate Court Proceedings: If the debt was forgiven during a probate court proceeding, this could be a significant factor. Probate court decisions are typically documented, and if the debt was officially forgiven, it should be reflected in the court records.
  2. Contractual Obligations: Since your husband did not sign any forms assuming financial responsibility for his mother's debt, he may not be contractually obligated to pay. Generally, a person cannot be held liable for a debt unless they have agreed to it in writing.(CT Gen Stat § 46b-215)
  3. Unethical Practices: The behavior of the assisted living facility, as described, might be considered unethical, especially if they previously acknowledged the debt was forgiven and are now pursuing it again.
  4. Witness Testimony: The presence of witnesses, like yourself and other family members, who can testify about what occurred during the probate court proceedings, could be valuable in supporting your husband's case.

One more question: the house deed is in my name only. Can they come after our house?

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Regarding your question about the house, since the deed is in your name only, it generally means that creditors cannot go after it for debts that are solely in your husband's name. However, there are some exceptions, so it's always good to be cautious.

Here are some steps and considerations for your husband's situation:

  1. Obtain Court Transcripts -On Monday, make sure to get the transcripts from the probate court that document the debt forgiveness. This will be crucial evidence in your husband's defense.
  2. Prepare Witness Statements -Since you, your husband's uncle, and his uncle's wife were present at the probate court hearing, consider preparing written statements about what was said during the proceedings. These can support your husband's claim that the debt was forgiven.
  3. File an Answer in Court -When your husband files his answer in Waterbury Superior Court, he should clearly state that the debt was forgiven in probate court and that he never signed any documents assuming financial responsibility.
  4. Consult with an Attorney -It might be beneficial to consult with a local attorney who specializes in debt or probate law. They can provide specific advice tailored to Connecticut laws and help ensure that your husband's rights are protected.
  5. Consider Mediation or Settlement -If the assisted living facility is open to it, mediation could be a way to resolve the issue without going to trial. This might involve negotiating a settlement or reaffirming the debt forgiveness.

Thank you so much.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

I hope I was able to help resolve your issue! If you have any other questions, feel free to ask. Just a friendly reminder, you have access to experts across various fields. Don't hesitate to reach out whenever you need assistance!

Thanks again.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

You're welcome! Take care and have a great day!

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