Dan
It sounds like you have had a really frustrating week, especially with visitation time coming up and a written order that does not match what everyone understood in court. You are trying to follow the court's ruling, meet at the midpoint location, use the midpoint police department, and stick to the 6:30 to 6:45 exchange window, but the signed order left those details out, which creates anxiety about communication and possible conflict. In Texas, visitation and possession orders must be "clear, specific, and unambiguous" about time and place for exchanges in order to be enforceable and to avoid repeated disputes, which is why these details matter so much to you right now. Texas law allows a judge to clarify an order that is too vague to enforce (TX Fam Code § 157.421), but does not allow the judge to change the ruling itself through a clarification (TX Fam Code § 157.423), which fits exactly with your point that you are not asking to change the decision, only to put into writing what was already discussed. With that in mind, it can help to look at your options so you can keep this week's visit as calm and predictable as possible.
One option is to move forward with a very focused request to the court for clarification, using language similar to what you have already drafted. Under Texas Family Code § 157.421, a court may issue a clarifying order if a visitation order lacks enough detail to be enforced through contempt, for example if the order does not clearly state the time and place for exchanges. In your motion or written response for the dismissal docket, you can emphasize that you are not seeking a modification of the judgment, only clarification and incorporation of the already stated logistics so the order can be followed consistently with minimal communication. The benefit of this approach is that it keeps you aligned with the judge's original intent, focuses on the child's stability, and gives the court a clean, concrete way to "fix" the problem without reopening the whole case.
A second option is to treat this Friday's hearing as your main opportunity to make a very brief, respectful record on the missing logistics, even if the setting is a dismissal docket. Texas enforcement and clarification materials stress that an order must state a clear time, date, and place to be enforceable, so it is reasonable to politely remind the court that those specifics were discussed but not written in. You could bring a short written proposed clarifying paragraph that lists the midpoint location, the midpoint police department as the exchange point, and the 6:30 to 6:45 exchange window with the grace period, and hand it up if the judge is willing to look at it. The upside is that this is simple and focused, and it shows you are trying to follow the court's intent, but the downside is that dismissal dockets can be very quick, so you may need to be ready to state your request in one or two calm sentences.
A third option is to approach communication with the other parent this week in a way that protects you legally even if the written order is not yet corrected. Texas visitation enforcement guidance explains that to show you complied, you generally need to follow the order "exactly as written" and appear in person at the exchange location and time listed in the order, making a record of your attempts. Since your current written order is missing logistics, you might send a short, neutral message proposing to follow the logistics that were discussed in court, for example meeting at the midpoint police department within the usual window, and then save those messages and any evidence that you showed up as agreed. This is not a perfect solution, but it can show the judge later that you acted in good faith to follow the spirit of the court's ruling and to keep communication smooth.
A fourth option, if the judge is not willing to clarify and problems continue, is to consider a future modification request focused only on logistics, though this is more involved and may not be where you want to start. In Texas, substantive changes to visitation terms, like changing who transports the child or significantly altering exchange locations, usually require a modification suit, which in turn requires showing a material and substantial change in circumstances and that the change is in the child's best interest (TX Fam Code § 156.101). That path can take more time and energy, which is why it is often better to try a clarification first when the issue is that the written order did not fully capture what the court already decided. Still, it is helpful to know that this is available in the background if the lack of clarity keeps leading to the same conflict and uncertainty.
Given where you are right now, the most practical starting point is usually to combine a focused request for clarification with careful, calm communication to the other parent about this week's visit, so that you both have something concrete to work from while you give the court a chance to correct the order. This approach respects the judge's original ruling, centers the child's stability, and shows that you are doing everything you reasonably can to avoid disputes and follow the court's intent.
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