[AL] What's a fair amount to ask for in child support?
Completely understand. Child support is based on custody arrangements and both parents’ income (Rule 32 of the Alabama Rules of Judicial Administration).
You can use an online calculator to estimate what a judge might order. Here’s one for Alabama: https://www.custodyxchange.com/locations/usa/alabama/child-support-calculator.php.
If you and your spouse can’t agree and you file for divorce, you can ask the judge to determine support since you both agree on custody. If you need a lawyer, you can contact your local bar association for a referral, or your local legal aid society or law school clinics for free or low-cost services.
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I’m just trying to see if what I’m asking for child support is a good amount. I’m asking $800 a month, and we’d split everything 50/50 after that. Out of the $800, $660 will go to daycare. The child will live with me 100% of the time, and he’ll get her when he can on weekends. So food, diapers, etc., will all come out of my check, including daycare diapers. Or is this something I need to find a lawyer near me to ask?

I understand you're looking for guidance on child support. How old is your child?

A year and a half.

Are there any specific expenses or circumstances related to your child’s needs that the lawyer should consider?

I don’t think so. My husband makes good money, and I’ve only had a job since October. I don’t make anywhere near what he does. He brings home around $850–$900 a week, and I bring that home every two weeks. We’re trying to stay civil. He only wants to pay $150 a week, but that doesn’t even cover daycare. I’m still left with everything else each month. I just want $200 a week to help cover more expenses. I just want to make sure that’s reasonable or if $150 is actually fair.

Is there anything else the lawyer should know before I connect you?

I think that’s all. He’s keeping everything. No alimony—we’ve only been married two years. He cheated, and I gave him several chances. I just want this over. He’s the child’s father, so I don’t want any mess. We both want this to be over peacefully.

Hello, my name is Charlie, and I’m a licensed attorney. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this, but I’ll be happy to assist you. Please give me a moment to review your question. Which state do you live in?

Alabama.

Copy that. Have you already filed for divorce?

No.

Do you both agree on custody?

Yes. He has always made me pay for daycare and all her needs (diapers, food, etc.). He has the house in his name. We each have separate checking accounts. He doesn’t want to give more than $150 a week. I’m asking for $200 a week. She’ll be with me 100% of the time, and he’ll see her on some weekends, not even every weekend. We’ll split everything else, like medical bills, 50/50.

Have you used an online calculator yet to get an estimate for support?

No. Since we were only married for two years, I’m not going after alimony or half the home equity. I just want this over fast and peacefully.

Completely understand. Child support is based on custody arrangements and both parents’ income (Rule 32 of the Alabama Rules of Judicial Administration).
You can use an online calculator to estimate what a judge might order. Here’s one for Alabama: https://www.custodyxchange.com/locations/usa/alabama/child-support-calculator.php.
If you and your spouse can’t agree and you file for divorce, you can ask the judge to determine support since you both agree on custody. If you need a lawyer, you can contact your local bar association for a referral, or your local legal aid society or law school clinics for free or low-cost services.

Thanks so much.

You’re very welcome. I’m glad to help. I wish you the best.
