Hello, I’m sending a cease and desist letter to a psychologist who lied in court and called me names. What else can I do? I am a professional, published, and normal. How do I fight for my reputation?
March 15, 2025

Beyond the cease and desist letter, which is a good initial step, you may want to consult with a defamation lawyer who can help you evaluate whether you have grounds for a lawsuit. Defamation involves false statements made with the intent to harm someone’s reputation, and these types of statements—such as calling you moody, alleging hallucinations, or accusing you of lying—could fall under that category. Depending on your jurisdiction, you may be able to pursue a civil lawsuit for defamation and seek damages for the harm to your reputation.
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Hello, I’m sending a cease and desist letter to a psychologist who lied in court and called me names. What else can I do? I am a professional, published, and normal. How do I fight for my reputation?

I’m sorry to hear about the situation with the psychologist. Have you already sent the cease and desist letter?

No, I’m getting ready to send it now.

Could you provide more details about the specific false statements made by the psychologist in court?

They said I don’t have insight and that I am moody. I allege violence in the home by my husband; that is why I might look moody. This is a normal response. I do not have a mental health problem. They say I’m lying and hallucinating. I do not do drugs.

Is there anything else the Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with defamation.

I’m concerned about defamation. I’m a professional person; you can find me on LinkedIn. This woman, Ellen Weld, is a psychologist, and she made lies in court. I think they are trying to keep my husband out of jail by saying I’m delusional. He had been hitting the children (and I’ve formerly worked as a mandated reporter).

Greetings! I hope this message finds you well. My name is Angelo, and I’m an experienced and licensed attorney with over 40 years of practice in the field of law. I’m thrilled to have the opportunity to assist you with your situation and provide you with the support you need. Please know that I may be assisting other clients simultaneously, but I assure you that I will give your case the attention it deserves as soon as possible. Also, just as a reminder, please remember to respond to all my messages, so I don’t lose you and so that we don’t get disconnected! Just so you are aware, I do not provide representation, and no attorney-client relationship is formed due to our conversation. Thank you for your patience, and I look forward to working with you.

It sounds like you’re dealing with a highly sensitive and potentially damaging situation involving false statements that have affected your personal and professional reputation. In addition to sending the cease and desist letter, there are several steps you can take to fight for your reputation and address the defamation and reputational harm caused by these false claims.

First, it’s important to document everything. Keep a record of the false statements made, especially if they were made under oath in court. Any official documentation, such as court transcripts, that includes the psychologist’s testimony can be critical evidence for any potential legal actions.

Beyond the cease and desist letter, which is a good initial step, you may want to consult with a defamation lawyer who can help you evaluate whether you have grounds for a lawsuit. Defamation involves false statements made with the intent to harm someone’s reputation, and these types of statements—such as calling you moody, alleging hallucinations, or accusing you of lying—could fall under that category. Depending on your jurisdiction, you may be able to pursue a civil lawsuit for defamation and seek damages for the harm to your reputation.

If you haven’t already, consider discussing with your lawyer the possibility of seeking an injunction to prevent further defamatory statements. Also, it might be worthwhile to explore avenues for public clarification of your professional standing, especially given your credentials and published work. Depending on the specifics of your case, a strategic public statement, either personally or through a lawyer, could help clear your name and protect your reputation.

If the false statements have also affected your professional life (for example, your ability to secure future work or professional relationships), you may also want to consider whether an intentional infliction of emotional distress claim could be relevant, especially if these actions are having a significant personal impact.

I hope I was able to help you and answer all of your questions and concerns. Is there any part of my response that you need clarification on or any further information? Did you have any other questions on this subject for me today?

Yes, what you said here is true.

I’m frustrated. I don’t have money to keep arguing for my reputation.

Under attack, I don’t do well. I have insight; they say I don’t. I know what my strengths and weaknesses are.

My lawyer may have turned. Is that usual? He had initially said he was sympathetic.

How do I download my cease and desist letter?

I understand how frustrating and overwhelming this situation must be, especially when you’re fighting for your reputation and personal well-being, and it seems like you’re being attacked on all fronts. It’s important to remember that you are in control of how you respond, even if things feel out of your hands at times.

Regarding your lawyer, it’s not entirely uncommon for attorneys to reassess their positions based on new information, or perhaps they may be facing internal conflicts or workload issues. However, if you feel that your lawyer is no longer serving your best interests, it might be worth seeking a second opinion or considering a new lawyer. Your reputation and peace of mind are critical, and you need someone on your side who believes in your case.

As for downloading your cease and desist letter, it depends on how you’ve drafted or received it. If you’re working with an attorney, they should provide you with a copy that you can save and send. If you’ve created it yourself, you can usually download it by saving the document to your computer or cloud storage and sending it from there. Make sure it includes all relevant details like the specific false statements and a demand for the recipient to stop making them immediately.

You don’t have to go through this alone. It might help to take a step back and assess your options for legal representation if finances are a concern. Some lawyers offer sliding scale fees, and pro bono assistance may be available if you qualify. If the lawyer you have is becoming less responsive or unsympathetic, finding someone who truly understands the gravity of your situation is key.