[NC] Should I name my spouse as first guardian in my will, or does he automatically get custody if I pass away?

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You don't necessarily have to name your husband as the first guardian, but it's common to do so if you want him to be the primary guardian while he's alive. If you both agree on this arrangement, it makes sense to list him first. Then, you can name your mom as the second guardian in case something happens to both of you.

In North Carolina, when a parent passes away, the surviving parent typically assumes full custody of the children unless there are legal reasons preventing this. This is because the law generally favors keeping children with their biological parents whenever possible.

However, naming a guardian in your will is important for situations where both parents are unable to care for the children (NC Gen Stat § 35A-1225). By naming your husband as the first guardian, you ensure that he is recognized as the primary choice for guardianship. Naming your mom as the second guardian provides a clear plan if both you and your husband are unable to care for your children.

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I'm creating a last will. Do I need to name my spouse as the first guardian of my children or should I name 2 other people as first and second guardians?

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I understand that creating a last will can be a challenging process. Have you already discussed guardianship with your spouse and the potential guardians you are considering?

Yes.

Lexi, Chatbot

How old are your children, and do you have any specific preferences or concerns regarding their guardianship?

1 and 2. I want my husband to have them if he is alive and my mom if we both die.

EsquireChamp

Hey there! I'm Esquirechamp, an attorney with many years of experience. Just so you are aware, this service provides legal information only. No attorney-client relationship is formed from our conversation.

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I understand you're creating a last will and considering guardianship options for your children. Have you thought about how to structure the guardianship in your will?

I want my husband to have them if he is alive and my mom if we both die.

EsquireChamp

Got it, thanks for sharing that. Could you let me know which state or country you're in? This helps because laws can vary by location.

North Carolina.

EsquireChamp

Great, thanks for letting me know you're in North Carolina. Have you already started drafting your will, or are you looking for guidance on how to begin?

I'm doing the last will document on this site. There is a first and second guardian. Do I need to name my husband as the first?

EsquireChamp

Let me know if you have any questions or clarifications.

Thank you for your time.

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