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I can see why you're feeling uneasy about this, especially since the case involves two different states and concerns your children. You explained that you gave temporary custody to someone and now they are trying to make it permanent in Indiana, while you live in Oklahoma. That situation naturally raises questions about which lawyer you need and where to focus your efforts.

Under federal law, the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) governs multi-state custody cases, and both Oklahoma and Indiana have adopted it, codified in Oklahoma at (43 OK Stat § 551-101) and in Indiana at (IN Code § 31-21-5-2). This law generally says that custody matters must be handled in the child's "home state," usually where the child has lived most recently for at least six months. With that in mind, let's look together at what steps you can take from here.

  1. One option is to hire a family law attorney licensed in Indiana. Since the court proceedings for permanent custody are taking place there, the judge will only allow an Indiana-licensed lawyer to represent you formally in court. That attorney can file pleadings, attend hearings, and argue on your behalf directly before the Indiana judge. This route is often the most effective when the main custody decision will be made in that state because the local lawyer will understand the court's procedures and expectations. You can look for attorneys who focus on interstate custody cases and may even offer virtual consultations so you can stay involved from Oklahoma.
  2. A second choice is to work with an Oklahoma attorney as an advisor, even if they cannot represent you in the Indiana court. An Oklahoma lawyer could help you understand your rights under Oklahoma law, assist in communicating with the Indiana attorney, and help you gather documents or evidence showing your ongoing connection with your children. This can be especially helpful if you hope to ask for a transfer of jurisdiction back to Oklahoma, though success depends on factors like where your children have lived lately and whether Oklahoma still has a legal basis to hear the case under the UCCJEA.
  3. A third option is to request that the Indiana court consider declining jurisdiction if Oklahoma is a more appropriate forum. This is called a "forum non conveniens" argument under the UCCJEA. If your children have strong ties to Oklahoma, or if significant evidence about their lives and caregiving history is located there, the Indiana court may agree to defer. To make this argument persuasively, though, you will almost always need an Indiana lawyer to file the proper paperwork and explain the legal reasoning to the judge.

Based on what you've described, the best starting point is to contact an Indiana family law attorney right away, ideally one who is familiar with Oklahoma's role under the UCCJEA. That lawyer can appear in court to protect your parental rights and coordinate with an Oklahoma attorney if needed. Please let me know if you have any other questions. I'm here to help if you need further clarification on any of these options.

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I gave temporary custody of my children to someone and now they are taking me to court to get permanent custody. They are in another state. Do I have to hire a lawyer from that state or can I hire one where I am?

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

I understand how concerning it must be to face a custody battle, especially when it involves another state. Have you already received any court documents regarding the custody case?

Yes, I received a notice of a hearing.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

What state are you currently residing in, and what state are your children in?

I'm in Oklahoma and my children are in Indiana.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Is there anything else the Family Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they'll be able to help with your custody case.

No.

Dan

Dan

Hello, and welcome to our service. My name is Daniel, and I've been a licensed attorney for over 22 years. I'm sorry you're dealing with this situation, and I'll do everything I can to help. You mentioned giving temporary custody of your children to someone who is now seeking permanent custody in another state. Could you tell me more about any steps you've considered or taken so far regarding this?

Dan

Dan

I can see why you're feeling uneasy about this, especially since the case involves two different states and concerns your children. You explained that you gave temporary custody to someone and now they are trying to make it permanent in Indiana, while you live in Oklahoma. That situation naturally raises questions about which lawyer you need and where to focus your efforts.

Under federal law, the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) governs multi-state custody cases, and both Oklahoma and Indiana have adopted it, codified in Oklahoma at (43 OK Stat § 551-101) and in Indiana at (IN Code § 31-21-5-2). This law generally says that custody matters must be handled in the child's "home state," usually where the child has lived most recently for at least six months. With that in mind, let's look together at what steps you can take from here.

  1. One option is to hire a family law attorney licensed in Indiana. Since the court proceedings for permanent custody are taking place there, the judge will only allow an Indiana-licensed lawyer to represent you formally in court. That attorney can file pleadings, attend hearings, and argue on your behalf directly before the Indiana judge. This route is often the most effective when the main custody decision will be made in that state because the local lawyer will understand the court's procedures and expectations. You can look for attorneys who focus on interstate custody cases and may even offer virtual consultations so you can stay involved from Oklahoma.
  2. A second choice is to work with an Oklahoma attorney as an advisor, even if they cannot represent you in the Indiana court. An Oklahoma lawyer could help you understand your rights under Oklahoma law, assist in communicating with the Indiana attorney, and help you gather documents or evidence showing your ongoing connection with your children. This can be especially helpful if you hope to ask for a transfer of jurisdiction back to Oklahoma, though success depends on factors like where your children have lived lately and whether Oklahoma still has a legal basis to hear the case under the UCCJEA.
  3. A third option is to request that the Indiana court consider declining jurisdiction if Oklahoma is a more appropriate forum. This is called a "forum non conveniens" argument under the UCCJEA. If your children have strong ties to Oklahoma, or if significant evidence about their lives and caregiving history is located there, the Indiana court may agree to defer. To make this argument persuasively, though, you will almost always need an Indiana lawyer to file the proper paperwork and explain the legal reasoning to the judge.

Based on what you've described, the best starting point is to contact an Indiana family law attorney right away, ideally one who is familiar with Oklahoma's role under the UCCJEA. That lawyer can appear in court to protect your parental rights and coordinate with an Oklahoma attorney if needed. Please let me know if you have any other questions. I'm here to help if you need further clarification on any of these options.

Dan

Dan

Thank you so much for sharing your questions with me. I truly appreciate the opportunity to assist you and am very glad you reached out. If you have any additional questions, now or later, I'm here for you seven days a week. Feel free to reach out if you need further assistance. I wish you all the best.

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